Seriously, folks between the paranormal books i have been reading and the church service I went to yesterday. I had a major de ja vue moment. Yesterday was about being a control freak. The book series I have been reading is about controling yourself not others. Since, I am reading multiple series they had similar lesson. You can not control those around you but you can control yourself. You can make others the center of your world.
I almost literarily passed out. I just wish more people weren't judgemental about reading paranormal books, many are written by Christains who get "it". The whole concept of the only person you can truly control is yourself.
Let everything else go..